I have been reading some terrific personal development books lately and then listened to a team call last night that really motivated me this morning to create my own Dream Board. This is a Board full of pictures of things I would like to achieve within the next two years or so. This is NOT a bucket list! This is something that I believe I can achieve waaaaaay before I kick the bucket! ;)
I wanted to share them here and let you know that I believe, truly believe, that these goals are all achievable so soon BECAUSE of Beachbody. I have seen it happen to many of the wonderful ladies in my upline and I know it can happen for me. It can also happen for you. I believe it takes some hard work, commitment and CONSISTENCY!!
Here it is…
I have actually changed my desktop to look like this and will probably print it out to help encourage me. I am so excited to share each of these with you!
First, I think it’s important to give you a bit of background. I am sharing this in the hopes that you will be encouraged as well. Rob and I live a comfortable life, but it took time to get there. We bought our current house at the height of the big housing boom and paid more than we should have. I could say we were young and naive, and just super excited to have our “first” house, but the truth is we made a mistake buying at that time. We were paying way more than we should have for our income and were, what Dave Ramsey calls “house poor”. We could afford the house but not a whole lot of other things! We had two car payments and student loans on top of our mortgage.
Fortunately, Rob was able to consistently get raises each year and we eventually got to the point where we paid off the student loans. We were ready for children and had FINALLY reached the point where I could come home from work to be a full time mom. But, this was tough. It was hard to go down to one income and add the expense of another child. Believe me when I say that I am so GRATEFUL to Rob and his job, because it is quite secure and has great insurance, which has been such a blessing in our life. So, we were able to make ends meet and do a few extra things. However, we had very little savings. Very little. And every time we built it up a bit we would travel or do other fun things because I have such a “I want to do it now before I’m old!” mentality.
Then, two big things happened last year that really changed my outlook. First, Rob was a part of the government furlough and his always-reliable-paycheck was suddenly reduced. They also cut out most of his travel, so that bonus income was gone. Second, we enrolled in a Dave Ramsey Financial Freedom course at our church. These two major things last year CHANGED MY WAY OF THINKING. Both of these events, whether I liked them or not, helped me understand that we were not being the best stewards of our money. We could do so much better, but (and you’ll hear this repeated quite a bit!), it would take DEDICATION and CONSISTENCY.
And you know what? For the past year we have worked out a budget and managed to pay down all of our debts, minus the mortgage, and start a savings of 3-6 months income (recommended by Mr. Dave). It is HARD. Sometimes I want to quit and just not worry about savings, or the future, and just “live in the moment”. However, we have stayed consistent. But I began to feel like we had reached all we were going to be able to achieve with our “box”. And I realized that I have to dream bigger in order to make those dreams happen.
So, lately, as I have been working on making my body healthy not only has my mind been more clear and healthy, but it has allowed me to start dreaming outside of box. I realized, by listening to my awesome upline and reading personal development, that there is no reason to stop dreaming. To think that I have achieved all I am going to and to just stay “status quo”. You and I can do more, dream more, create more!
My first goal is to continue on my fitness journey. I would love to see my abs and get my arms into better shape. But, at the heart of it, I just want to feel confident in my clothes and not worry about how I look at the beach.
Arms and Abs, baby!
I want to continue my personal development journey and read as much as I can…
Build my dream house with a beautiful kitchen, open floor plan and LOTS of storage. A pantry! One day I look forward to having a pantry! This is a picture of the actual kitchen I hope to will have one day.
Along those same lines, I dream about having the ultimate homeschool room for my children. Yes, I’m a crazy homeschool mom! I love it and believe it has been my calling from God as the best choice for my children. One day I hope to have a room full of beautiful white furniture, colorful wall maps and lots of sunlight to foster their love and learning and creating…
I live in Florida and have a four year old who is crazy about swimming. This year I have been feeling the itch to have a pool! I would love to be able to have lazy summer days by the pool, pool parties and hear the giggles of my kids as they enjoy the water…
I might throw in a fire pit and a hot tub, too! ;)
To travel freely and to show my children all kinds of different places and cultures. My primary goal is to go to England, Scotland and Ireland and stay in castles and see Stonehenge and visit Irish pubs and let my kids pretend to be kings and queens.
The final big dream, which is the most important to me, is to help others change their lives.
I want to show others that if I can do it, so can you! Listen, I was such a coach potato before. I never committed more than a couple weeks to any sort of exercise and NEVER finished a program. I would lose weight just by dieting only to gain it back and then some. Between the awesome fitness programs, world class instructors, incredible shakes and the support online of other coaches and friends, I found that it was totally possible to stick with something. And that missing one day didn’t mean it was over and I had to quit. I learned to keep going! And that has shown me that I can dream bigger!
If you’d like to join me on this journey, I would so love to have you! I love dreaming and creating with others. I can help you discover your own goals and how you can achieve them. If you’d like to reach me, just fill out the contact form below or message me on facebook and I will be in touch. Now, go fill out your own Dream Board!